Soms heb je geen advies of oplossingen nodig. En oordeel sowieso niet. Soms heb je gewoon iemand nodig waarbij je je simpelweg kan uiten. Of dat nu met woorden is of in stilte.
Holding space
You feel trapped,
between the words.
The words of those
who only try to help.
But it doesn't help.
You need you.
To express.
Talk.
Ventilate.
You need space.
Someone who gives you
space.
Who let you
be you.
Someone who knows
how to hold space.
Who doesn't fix, nor judge,
and won't give advice.
Because he or she knows:
holding space,
will just suffice.